How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What can you do if you are a full-grown adult, but never experienced being a child?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why are perceived or real slights interpreted as rejections and reality by pwBPD?

What I need from you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How do I beat domestic battery charges against my covert narcissist husband who is lying and playing the victim?

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Answer me this. These days guys love anal sex right, if you present them with your ass they will happily nail you into the ground. So why do some guys think it's "sissy" to let women stick a finger up their ass?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What is the rudest/meanest thing a family member has said to you?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.